Last night we met some friends from the Warthogs MC whom we've not seen in a while and as always with that group, the conversation turned to boobs and sex. Ha.
So I discovered that K is a little nervous about having sex with me at this point. He is a little freaked out that her head is down and my cervix is opening. Lol. He said..."I can't get it out of my head. What if I hit her head?" Then he reluctantly added, "I could cum on my daughter."
I couldn't help but laugh. I know a lot of men feel that way at this point, from what I've read. Maybe I shouldn't have filled him in on all the changes. Lol. Maybe I need to remind him if the fact that she is in the amniotic sac and his semen won't get to her.
Anyway, we did get past the little hurdle today after we talked about it a little bit. He's still very nervous and my belly is so much heavier and harder that it made it nearly impossible, but it was fun to try.
I have a feeling we'll be in a bit of a dry spell until we get the okay after Kathryn is born. It's okay though....intimacy comes in many, many forms and I'm the type of person who is more turned on by a fun-filled day of laughter, sweet kisses and hugs than an all out romp in the sack. He makes me happy in so many ways that waiting to have sex again doesn't even bother me...at least now that I know WHY he wasn't very interested and I know it isn't a lack of attraction for me!
Today we are heading to Mainstrass for Goodfellas pizza and then we're going to grab some movies. Yesterday we had a wonderful day at the zoo. It was beautiful outside and the walking really made me feel great. It's been a good weekend for us. I'm so in love and so incredibly happy and blessed....and very thankful to be having good days the last few days.
I just realized what the difference is! No pregnancy forums...no unnecessary worries or questions in my head...no baby announcements to read to make me feel like I'll never give birth. No more of that. It's just baby, me, and K and that works just fine for me. :-)
I feel calm, rested and well, (if it isn't too weird to say...)beautiful today. LIFE IS GOOD!
So I discovered that K is a little nervous about having sex with me at this point. He is a little freaked out that her head is down and my cervix is opening. Lol. He said..."I can't get it out of my head. What if I hit her head?" Then he reluctantly added, "I could cum on my daughter."
I couldn't help but laugh. I know a lot of men feel that way at this point, from what I've read. Maybe I shouldn't have filled him in on all the changes. Lol. Maybe I need to remind him if the fact that she is in the amniotic sac and his semen won't get to her.
Anyway, we did get past the little hurdle today after we talked about it a little bit. He's still very nervous and my belly is so much heavier and harder that it made it nearly impossible, but it was fun to try.
I have a feeling we'll be in a bit of a dry spell until we get the okay after Kathryn is born. It's okay though....intimacy comes in many, many forms and I'm the type of person who is more turned on by a fun-filled day of laughter, sweet kisses and hugs than an all out romp in the sack. He makes me happy in so many ways that waiting to have sex again doesn't even bother me...at least now that I know WHY he wasn't very interested and I know it isn't a lack of attraction for me!
Today we are heading to Mainstrass for Goodfellas pizza and then we're going to grab some movies. Yesterday we had a wonderful day at the zoo. It was beautiful outside and the walking really made me feel great. It's been a good weekend for us. I'm so in love and so incredibly happy and blessed....and very thankful to be having good days the last few days.
I just realized what the difference is! No pregnancy forums...no unnecessary worries or questions in my head...no baby announcements to read to make me feel like I'll never give birth. No more of that. It's just baby, me, and K and that works just fine for me. :-)
I feel calm, rested and well, (if it isn't too weird to say...)beautiful today. LIFE IS GOOD!
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